Those who spend their time looking for faults in others, usually make no time to correct their own..

Hey, Hi, Hello.. and welcome to episode 3765145 of 'but what will the neighbours say?!'

Is it a human being thing, or a rural Ireland thing?..

We care SO BLOODY MUCH about what others think of us, or how we will come across, or what people will say (and they will).

I spent a silage pit of time, effort and money on something I have a such a passion and drive for, something that gives others help and support, puts a smile on people's faces and selfishly my own as I am doing something that brings me joy and purpose.

Now after all this time, effort and money, you would think one would be excited to finally give this help and offer these smiles to those in need..

OH NO. NOT ME. NO SIR.

You see, I am a teacer by profession, so my social media accounts will remain private. (Not at all influenced by the daily follow requests from past students 👀 )

So this meant that in order to publicise my website and content, I would need to set up a separate SheóMeYourMidset account on my social media platforms...

Was making this choice difficult?

..Does the Pope pray?

I went back and forth with the idea li

ke Federer and Nadal on a hot July. What was holding me back?

I could see eyes rolling, I could hear the scoffs and comments, I could smell the judgement.... and the salmon I was burning while having this mild panic attack.

When I actually broke it down, I thought, 'Okay, so what is my mission statement? What is my why?'

I simply want to help anybody who may need it, I want to put a smile on even one person's face for ten seconds in the day before life throws sh*t at them (and it will) and I want to prove that when you put work into something you love, it doesn't feel like work.

So if the gosspiers and the judgers are making a comment...

What is it?

''Look at her there, trying to help people... ugh the cheek!"

"THE HACK of her trying to make people smile.."

"SHE MUST BE STOPPED - SOMEBODY ALERT THE CHURCH!!!"

I have decided to focus on who I am helping, not who's hating. To all the lovely people who have said that my rants, or a quote has started their day with a smile, or turned an already crappy day a little bit better.

You are to thank, for making me see sense.

If anything, I want the people who may have rolled those eyes, or scoffed or judged..

(which I have no problem with, as I said, rural Ireland we are bred to have something to say about what others are doing, we can't even help it most of the time!)

..to have a think about why they did.

Why does someobody else chasing a big old fat dream, which causes no harm to others..

ANNOY THE BEJAYSIS OUT OF US??

Food for thought,

not for the belly,

go have a snack.

Thanks for the rant reading.

Sheó x